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Signs that you lack confidence

Ever felt like your inner light was dimmed by self-doubt? You’re not alone. Low self-confidence can stealthily affect various aspects of our lives. Very often, lack of confidence has roots which usually go back to our childhood.  However, there are times when we get through our childhood with our confidence in tact, only for something…

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Self-Care = Self Preservation

Do you resist putting yourself first or giving yourself some self care or love? I look upon self care as self preservation. Life can be challenging and we have all sorts to deal with through the course of life, including stress, trauma, looking after others, working hard, paying the bills and much more. Our health is…

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The curse of comparison

We compare ourselves to others more than ever now.  This is exacerbated by social media of course.  We are led into a false sense of reality as everybody dresses their social media shop window exactly as they wish, in order to portray whatever they desire to the world.  Many use social media as a means of…

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Is your child en route to burn out?

Burn out can be the result of many different reasons and sometimes a combination of reasons.  Also, the signs of burn out can be so varied.  If this becomes a long term issue then a diagnosis of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome / Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (also known as CFS/ME) may result. Through my therapy work I often spot the…

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Listen to me…please

Often my work goes in themes.  I sometimes have lots of clients who want to lose weight, suffer anxiety or want to stop smoking.  Other occasions there is a running theme such as challenges with a family member or feeling unsupported. The theme of the day is not feeling that people are listening to what…

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Let Down By The Schooling System

Many of our early memories come from school.  My very first memory is meeting my long term best mate Sam, whilst she was playing with the scales on an introductory day at Infant School (Year 1 in today’s language). Sadly, often through school becomes disappointment, fear, bullying and negative feelings about ourselves.  My big disappointment came…

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Confidence and You

Confidence, or rather lack of confidence, is at the root of many issues.  Let’s take a look at where that lack of confidence comes from. It is rare to be born with a lack of confidence. You only have to look at very young children before they are stifled by society, structure and life events to see…

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